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Dear Paige, I was moved by your post. And although I don't have any answer for you, I wanted to respond.
What have your doctors said about your concerns? Have they offered insights?
And it's not "kinda dumb" to want a perfect wedding at all! But I am an old broad and have learned that few things are "perfect" ever, anyway. So you might want to redefine that word and just aim for a good and happy wedding. In the end what matters is sharing this special occasion with those dearest to you. Who already think you are beautiful.
There are alot of wise women and men on this board and I know you will receive much support here.
Keep the faith.
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Bonnie
Post menopause
May 2007 Core biopsy, Rt breast
ER+, Pr-, HER2 +++, Grade 3
Ki-67: 90%
"suspicious area" left breast
Bilateral mastectomy, (NED on left) May 2007
Sentinel Node Neg
Stage 1, DCIS with microinvasion, 3 mm, mostly removed during the biopsy....
Femara (discontinued 7/07) Resumed 10/07
OncoType score 36 (July 07)
Began THC 7/26/07 (d/c taxol and carboplatin 10/07)
Began Herceptin alone 10/07
Finished Herceptin July /08
D/C Femara 4/10 (joint pain/trigger thumb!)
5/10 mistakenly dx with lung cancer. Middle rt lobe removed!
Aromasin started 5/10
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