Tricia, sorry to hear your path. report was disappointing. Just wanted to reassure you that mets are not inevitable--I was so scared when I was diagnosed with a 15 cm tumor (huge!) and 11/24+ lymph nodes back in 2001. I walked around for a long time under a cloud of doom just waiting for mets to turn up everywhere. BUT, after chemo, radiation and Herceptin for a year, I am doing fine, almost 6 years later with No mets! Just take things one day at a time and don't start in with those "what if.." thoughts. Also have to say your message from your husband was so beautiful, you are so blessed to have him in your corner during this cancer fight! (Regarding radiation, it really isn't so bad, nothing compared to chemo--no needles, no nausea, etc.--just felt like a bad sunburn towards the end.)
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Audrey
diagnosed July 2001, at age 36
large tumor, 11+ nodes
Stage IIIb, er/pr-, Her2+
treated with A/C, weekly Taxol
radiation, + year of Herceptin
on clinical trial. double mastectomy
followed by reconstruction
NED!!
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