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Mary Anne in TX 02-14-2008 11:17 AM

Happy Valentine's Day Gang!
 
Sending lots of love to all today! Especially to those who visit but don't post!!! Together, we truly are mighty! Lots and lots of love & peace of mind to each and everyone of my heroes, ma

Kim in CA 02-14-2008 11:36 AM

Happy Valentines Day to you too Mary Anne!

I love your Happy smiling face and all that you contribute to this board. Have a wonderful day and don't forget to eat lots of chocolate!

Love Kim

tricia keegan 02-14-2008 12:05 PM

Hi Mary Anne, I'll second what Kim just said and hope you too have a very Happy Valentine's day with lots of chocs and flower's! Thank you from me also for all YOU do here:)

Karen W 02-14-2008 12:22 PM

I am sending my love and Valentine wishes to all.

Karen

Vi Schorpp 02-14-2008 12:37 PM

Ditto
 
to everything said! Mary Anne you're a great light on this board and I think everyone appreciates it. I also think of your initials when you sign off which is MA, not Mary Anne, but I think of my MA! Thanks.

PinkGirl 02-14-2008 12:45 PM

Happy Valentine's Day to everyone.
Lily started a similar thread in another
forum - so Happy Valentine's Day to
you too Lily.


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ita 02-14-2008 12:46 PM

I second that emotion. A very happy Valentine's Day to all.

Hugs and kisses,
Ita (gricel)

Jade 02-14-2008 01:05 PM

A day for love and chocolates with a little champagne thrown in for good measure - now that's a good day!

It was three years ago today that I had my first chemo. I was absolutely terrified, terrified! I was with my Dad when he went through brutal chemo in the hopes he might get a little extra time since he had lung cancer which had spread so quickly it had literally eaten away three of his ribs and had manifested itself in a growth on his brain that was bulging out from his head. He didn't make it.

My sister/rock was with me for all my chemo treatments; the first one I hid my fear by using my IV pole to practise pole dancing moves which had us all howling with laughter. I went from that, to shaking and crying before the remaining three treatments. Besides suffering badly from nausea and vomiting, I was just so bummed out that I now had to spend my days like this. I got so sick of the time and effort of constantly seeing doctors, disgusted at what my life had become.

I'm now 39 months NED and consider myself to be the luckiest girl in the world. I lost everything to cancer except my beloved children, family and friends, which at the end of the day really is all that matters, but financially I was ruined, left with NOTHING, just about homeless (I'm a single mom). But at least I have my health and can rebuild, and will get my life back although it is taking some time. Every day is still a struggle but in a different way. When I start to feel sorry for myself, I remember back to one day when I was sick as a dog from chemo, trying to wipe the counters in my kitchen. I'm sure many of you can relate to this when I say, I didn't have the strength in my hands to squeeze the water out of the dishcloth. Now when I'm in my kitchen cleaning endlessly and thinking how I'm sick of it, I remember back to when I COULDN'T squeeze the water out of that dishcloth, and I am so very grateful that I'm well and I find joy anew in cleaning my kitchen!

Hope you don't mind my sharing this with you - Valentine's Day has a different meaning for me now, but here's the thing, I'm here, I feel great, and I'm eating quality chocolate and drinking cheap champagne! Here's a toast to each and every one of all you incredible women (and men) who are the reason so many of us have found help, comfort and the strength to go on.

Love to all,
Jade

Faith in Him 02-14-2008 01:32 PM

Wishing everyone lots of love and peace today.


Love,
Tonya

Mary Jo 02-14-2008 01:33 PM

Happy Valentine's to all you wonderful people. I care about each of you. You guys are always in my heart.

Jade, thank you for sharing that wonderful story of HOPE with us. A "gentle" reminder to live each day to the fullest - enjoy what you have while you have it. One never knows when it will be taken from you.

My God in Heaven..........................Chocolate, kisses and hugs...................................Life truly doesn't get much better.

Consider yourself hugged,

Mary Jo

lexigirl 02-14-2008 03:19 PM

Happy Valentine's Day to you all !! You all are very special to me and share a special place in my heart.

Hugs,
Lexi

Mary Anne in TX 02-14-2008 05:12 PM

Jade, thanks for sharing your Valentine's Day story. You may have lost everything financially, but your war chest is full of friends, overcomer victories, and the knowledge that you can rise again....and again....and again. Best of luck on your financial goals. Keep believin' that You Can Do It!!!!! May your box of chocolates be filled with "gold and jewels"! ma

Bill 02-14-2008 05:48 PM

Ma, Happy Valentine's Day to you and all of my wonderful new family members here. Jade, thanks for sharing your story. It sounds like you've got the right perspective. Love, Bill

Joanne S 02-14-2008 05:58 PM

Jade, http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/11/11_1_211v.gifThanks for sharing your very special touching story!

My wishes for many many years of NED! http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_3_6.gifJo



Happy Valentines Day to all of my wonderful sisters and brothers! http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_4_5.gif Jo

Joe 02-14-2008 06:08 PM

Valentine's Story ??

Christine and I were engaged to be married 25 years ago today. We didn't plan to be corney and get engaged on Valentine's Day.

The date was supposed to be on February 11th, but a snowstorm which dropped 4 feet of snow in New Jersey prevented us from picking up the ring.

Regards
Joe - From sunny San Diego where it doesn't snow.

Mary Anne in TX 02-14-2008 06:22 PM

Surely am glad that snow storm didn't interrupt the engagement for long! That Valentine's Day event 25 years ago was fated to bless zillions of people! ma

Bill 02-14-2008 06:24 PM

That's a funny story Joe! (Be careful about the no snow comment, though, my friend. You might have to join me in my apology room. Everytime I talk about the weather, I get in more and more trouble)

Jean 02-14-2008 07:02 PM

To all the sweethearts,
Sending you much love and wishing you much peace and joy.

Hugs,
Jean

hermiracles 02-17-2008 11:53 AM

We were married
 
Hope everyone had a beautiful Valentines Day! We certainly did - we got married! http://her2support.org/vbulletin/ima...ons/icon10.gif

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a3...gceremony4.jpg

It really was a lovely day ~ so grateful so many of our friends and family ~ and our beautiful bubbas ~ could be there. We have been together a long time ~ it was beautiful to confirm our commitment to each other and our gorgeous family.
Thanks to Creator for bringing such joy into our lives.

http://i14.photobucket.com/albums/a3...ngingRings.jpg

Blessings all
Hermiracles

lilyecuadorian 02-17-2008 12:12 PM

Hermiracles congratulations....I did get married too last year ...but I was in the hospital....but I fell better ..lol ... I did have any party ...but I married ........


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