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NEDenise 09-30-2011 06:30 PM

You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Hi everyone...
You know Jeff Foxworthy's bit...You know you're a redneck when...(his words, not mine)

I saw this one posted somewhere...

You know you're a BC survivor when... you agree to a course of treatment specifically designed to turn you into an overweight, beefy, red-faced, bald guy!

Here's mine...
You know you're a BC survivor when...every time you see someone in a labcoat, you state your birthdate, and start unbuttoning your blouse! (very embarrassing in the hospital cafeteria!)

Anybody else wanna try?
Denise
PS - I'm not trying to offend anyone. These may be a little irreverent, but I am a firm believer that laughter is the best medicine! If you don't think these are funny, please don't respond and rain on my parade. Just move on to the next thread. Thanks! :)

NEDenise 10-04-2011 07:22 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
I think I may have an audience on one for these (me!) but I thought of another one...

You know you're a breast cancer survivor when...you feel compelled to speak to every woman you see who's also wearing a scarf or hat to keep her bald head safe from the sun or the chilly air.

rhondalea 10-04-2011 03:44 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
I think these are hilarious, and I hope you can keep posting them. As soon as I can come up with one that isn't specific to mastectomy--e.g., massaging scar tissue while driving in the car for all the world to see--I'll post it. (And you should've seen the looks I was getting.)

In the meantime, great start for a funny thread. Laughter is good.

NEDenise 10-04-2011 03:58 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Rhonda!
I love that one!!!

Here's a related one...
You know you're a breast cancer survivor when... you view traffic jams as good opportunities to manually drain your lymphedema arm! (It's the only time I wish I had a sun roof...so I could stretch my arm out the top of the car!)

rhondalea 10-04-2011 04:53 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Well, I can't make this topical, but during most of my drive time, I reach over my shoulder and grasp the bottom of the headrest. Great for stretching the arm and the chest. I do both arms, but with most of the attention to the node side.

Oh wait, I do have another one that*is* topical...

...when you find yourself tweezing in all the usual places (i.e., under your non-existent brows and at the chin) even though you don't have a single hair on the rest of your head (or any of the other places one would normally hope to have hair).

I had my eyebrows tattooed in between surgery and the start of chemo. I love them, but when the Taxol decided to finish what AC barely got started (long after the rest of my hair was gone), I discovered that I was still growing fine blonde (okay, white) ones underneath the brow line. Bizarre. No, make that ridiculous.

I still have to shave my legs--the hair is very sparse, but there's nothing quite like a tiny bit of stubble, plus one long hair growing beside one's kneecap.

Cancer is definitely not for wussies.

Henny 10-04-2011 05:20 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you're a breast cancer survivor when you pull up your shirt to show off your new nipple tatoos and don't even think it's weird

candlegranny 10-04-2011 07:16 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
NEDenise I love this one and I can identify with the manual draining, I usually lay on my bed, get my good nodes "excited" and then drain to their area, slap on the old sleeve..the boob and ready for the day. thanks for this thread! Bonita

NEDenise 10-05-2011 07:58 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Ha! You guys are funny!

Here's another one from me...

You know you're a breast cancer survivor when...
you always have senna, colace, miralax, and immodium on hand, and don't have to read the labels anymore...you just know how much and how often!

rhondalea 10-05-2011 08:31 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
...you *wish* you needed Imodium.

Sheesh.

NEDenise 10-06-2011 12:58 PM

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You know you're a BC survivor when...you joke about your cancer, and your 'healthy' friends aren't sure whether to laugh along.

(I told them...rule of thumb guys...if I'm laughing...it's okay for you to laugh!!)
Like this:

NEDenise 10-18-2011 08:03 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you're a BC survivor when you know the meanings of all the abbreviations and acronyms your doctor uses...Dx, ACT, IBC, FECs, DCIS, TCH, met, Tx, Mx, ER/PR, PRN, ASAP, EIEIO :)

Hee hee!
Denise

KristinSchwick 10-18-2011 11:28 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Great thread- I have a few to add....
You know your a BC survivor when you don't remember when you had your last solid BM.
You know your a BC survivor when you spend 10 minutes trying to get a hair clip into your peach fuzz of hair, only to see the wind knock it out as soon as you leave the house.
You know your a BC survivor when you are excited to go to chemo and get liters of toxins pumped into your body.
You know your a BC survivor when you are looking forward to growing OLD!

NEDenise 10-18-2011 11:44 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Kristen,
Amen to that last one....a THOUSAND times, AMEN!!

I'm just now getting my peach-fuzzy hair back...but thanks to you, I now know not to try to accessorize too soon! LOL

How about a piggy-back to your 3rd one...
You know you're a BC survivor when you're disappointed that you can't get chemo (aka buckets full of poison) because your counts are too low.

Denise

chekmark 10-19-2011 04:32 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Your know you are a breast cancer survivor when you see the letters BC and they actually meant because and you thought breast cancer and could not figure out why the statement didn't make any sense.

NEDenise 10-19-2011 09:48 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Darlene,
Good one! How about one inspired by your signature...

You know you're a BC survivor when your treasured pet earned its place in the family by "finding your lump"!!

Congrats on your upcoming "last Herceptin"! Only a few weeks now. Wow!
I'm getting better every day from my surgery. Next stop...radiation...and I think I have 8 or 9 Herceptins left.
I've been trying to decide what date to choose as my cancer-versary. Did you pick one yet? It's hard to know...diagnosis?.."lump" day?...first treatment?...last treatment?...surgery?...
All in all...it's not a bad "problem" to have, huh!?
Be well!
Denise

chekmark 10-19-2011 04:31 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Denise,
So glad you healing so well. You sound so strong and upbeat. I celebrated my 1 year cancerversary on Oct. 5th. I picked that day since that is the day the cancer was officially removed. It was only 5 days after be diagnosed so it wasn't a big difference in date. My mast. was Oct 26th and since they found no cancer then I decided to use the lumpectomy date. My last herceptin is Nov 21st. Getting it a little early due to the holiday. Ready for it to be over but also getting alittle nervous already. Are your drains out yet? Stay strong my friend and keep us laughing with all your silly posts. Take care and god bless.

chekmark 10-19-2011 04:36 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you are a breast cancer survivor when your husband shaves his head so you can look like the wife. (Just alittle inside joke between us).

NEDenise 10-20-2011 05:10 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Hahaha!
So...you already had your cancer-versary! Yay you!!!
It's not so simple for me...after my lumpectomy, the margins weren't clear. But I think the chemo tracked down the little beasties and killed them before my mastectomy. So...the search for a cancer-versary date continues. But if you think about it...it's an awesome thing to be able to spend time pondering the day my body was once again cancer-free!! Maybe I should celebrate all the days!! (But that much cake...probably not a good idea...)

So...You know you're a BC survivor...when you start trying to figure out when your cancer-versary should be celebrated!!
Denise
PS- two drains come out today! Woo Hoo!

chrisy 10-20-2011 09:24 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Your Her2buddy tells you to take ammonia daily to help with drug side effects and your only question is "How much and do I drink it or put my feet in it?"
(Then you find out her phone spell-checker changed "immodium" to "ammonium")

NEDenise 10-20-2011 09:56 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
OMGosh!
That's the best one yet!
Thanks for the belly laugh!!
Denise

chrisy 10-20-2011 08:25 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Haha
Yes, I am still laughing too...this just happened YESTERDAY!

NEDenise 11-01-2011 07:12 AM

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So...in honor of Chrisy and StephN..

You know you're a BC survivor when...you have several wigs to choose from when Halloween rolls around!

Or like me...

You know you're a BC survivor when...you don't even need a wig for Halloween because your short spiky red hair makes you look just like Annie Lennox anyway! (whether it Halloween or not!! Yikes!)

chrisy 11-01-2011 08:33 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
So it that you or Annie?
I have a red wig that looks great. I like to wear it with sunglasses and a leather coat. I feel like a superspy

NEDenise 11-02-2011 07:39 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Chris-
Having gained 45 pounds since starting chemo...I can state with certainty that Annie is not 1/2 the woman I am!! :)

But my hair is less orange!

Denise

NEDenise 11-13-2011 03:48 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Here's one specifically for those of us struggling with lymphedema....

You know you're a BC survivor when...one arm is clearly bigger than the other, and you just don't give a %$#& anymore!!

Denise

rhondalea 11-19-2011 09:28 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
...the very thought of posting (and sometimes even reading) about it makes your head spin (not to mention that typing is more work than you can handle, anyway).

chrisy 11-19-2011 03:51 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
How bout this one Denise... The NP for your "new therapy" compliments you on how beautiful your hair is and then 15 minutes later suggests you might not want to get too attached to it....
And you get home and think THATs just funny!

fauxgypsy 11-19-2011 06:27 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you are a breast cancer survivor when you are searching for pictures of boobs on the internet and you aren't male or gay.

fauxgypsy 11-19-2011 06:32 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you are a breast cancer survivor when someone makes a snide comment about your ultra short haircut and you tell them that you are just happy to have hair.

NEDenise 11-20-2011 04:17 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Rhonda- I have been that tired! So true!!

Chris- I love that you laugh, when many other women would cry! You rock! I still giggle every time I think about the ammonium mix up!

Faux- I know what you mean about the websearch. I had to find out how to clear the search history so my teenage sons wouldn't stumble across some of the crazy weird breasts my search turned up! Have to say, the photos some plastic surgeons posted would definitely NOT have made me want to be their patient!!

Okay...how about...

You know you're a BC survivor when you almost have yourself convinced that your ultra short haircut looks "exotic", just so you won't have to wear the d&#@ wig anymore!

Happy Thanksgiving, my friends! :)
Denise

StephN 11-20-2011 08:53 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you are a breast cancer survivor when your dust bunnies have babies.

(Somehow deep cleaning goes by the wayside!)

NEDenise 11-20-2011 09:05 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Heck!
I think we should just name them and start calling them pets!!

NEDenise 12-01-2011 12:25 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you're a BC survivor when...
your onc tells you to drink more milk to boost you vitamin D intake,
your surgeon tells you to eat lots of meat because you need protein to heal,
and your cadiologist tells you to cut out meat and dairy entirely, so you don't put any extra strain on your chemo ravaged heart!!

Seriously, that was my week! Sheesh! One thing at a time please!

It reminds me of the sign in the main office at school:
I can only please one person per day, and today is not your day! Tomorrow isn't looking good either! :)
Denise

NEDenise 04-30-2012 08:45 AM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
This one's for you, Darlene...
You know you are a BC survivor when...

your first thought upon realizing you have a headache is...hmmm, what do brain mets feel like?

Not particularly funny...but true!
Denise

NEDenise 06-04-2012 07:36 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you're a BC survivor...

when the phrase "nipple tattooing" does not seem at all strange to your ear!

AliciaB 06-04-2012 08:44 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
I LOVE this thread!

StephN 06-04-2012 10:08 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
When the Komen race for the Cure seems like more political hype. Guess we can get jaded!

Since I was diagnosed in 2000 and there is NO cure yet, all that running seems moot.

NEDenise 06-05-2012 06:08 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
Alicia...glad you love the thread!

Steph...yeah! that's got to be the slowest "race" ever! I wish the Better Business Bureau would shut that mess down for false advertising. They devote so little money to research...it's just not honest to say they're "for the cure"!

But...on a lighter note...
You know you're a BC survivor when...
...you realize after you finish radiation, that you now have the best tan of your life...in your armpit!

Laurel 06-05-2012 06:16 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
As always Denise, THANKS FOR THE LAUGHS!

NEDenise 07-26-2012 02:01 PM

Re: You know you're a BC survivor when...
 
You know you're a BC survivor when...
the neurosurgeon steps out of the room, and you and your husband start high-fiving because you only have to have your brain irradiated...not cut open.

Sheesh!

And BTW - the wondering about whether my headache was a brain tumor saved my life! I'm sure of it!! Good one Darlene!

Keep laughing! It's definitely good medicine!
Denise


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