I agree completely about the hot flashes. I haven't taken anything for them yet but I will see two of my doctors this week and ask them if I should take anything. Since I am now 53 it probably was about time to hit menopause any way so I think the chemo just pushed up the date. Your hair should start coming in nicely any day now. I never lost all of mine but it got too thin so I have been wearing a wig which everyone thinks looks so much better than my long hair did. Got the best compliment last week - a woman I hadn't seen in months who did not know I have cancer asked me if I was having an affair.