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Andi,
We all needed this so much. Thank you, and like you, I wish the best for Nancy, always. Love Karen |
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Wow! very inspiring.
stay NED and keep enjoying life. hugs and love sarah |
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Andi,
I really needed to hear this today. Amelia |
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Hi Andy
I always read your posts and find them uplifting. I know how contentious the mind/ body connection is not only in the field of cancer but other diseases as well. One of the arguments is that if positive thoughts could 'cure' disease then everyone would get well.However I don't believe this is what you're advocating. It seems to me that you believe that by changing your thoughts and belief and perceptions that you biologically assist your immune system in fighting disease? If the hypothesis that the immune system is a perceptional entity then it would make a lot of sense Ellie |
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Right on, Ellie!
In 1980 I had a kidney stone the size of Texas. Or so the x-rays and the urologist told me. I was told the stone was too big to pass on my own. I needed surgery. I didn't want surgery. I vowed to try and pass it on my own. The urologist was game. I saw the plastic form on his desk, our innards from a urological perspective. He showed me where the stone entered the urethra and where it was presently. He showed me the long route it had to take to exit. There were 2 intersections where the passage would be very tight. Those would probably be when I would find myself on the floor (as I had the night it left my kidney). I had never found myself sprawled on the floor, only able to whisper, in knife-stabbing pain deep inside. I moved forward with a totally positive attitude. I drank 10 glasses of water a day. And strained my urine to catch the sucker and have it analyzed. I envisioned the stone moving along it's course. I KNEW that when I felt extreme pain (vs general tenderness/pain and nausea/renal colic) -- that meant the stone was on the move!!! Which was my goal!!! So instead of tightening up all my muscles in response to the awful pain, I let it be, so as not to obstruct the stone from moving. I was giving birth to the thing! After a month, I added jumping rope, to help jar the stone along, with guided imagery (recalling the plastic figure on the doc's desk) and willing it to move. I saw the urologist and it was determined that the stone had moved but not enough. I doubled my efforts. At 10 wks -- I passed my stone. I captured it and brought it to my urologist. He had a smile from ear to ear, beaming! He was in stunned disbelief. He didn't really think it could be done. But had encouraged me, knowing it was my desire to avoid surgery. When dx w/bc I never thought I could avoid the surgery. Or the chemotherapy. But I fully intended to meditate and use guided imagery to assist! I made my Intention and Expectation clear -- to my body (which hears everything we think, say and whisper) and follows our commands as it is programmed to do. I also made my Intention and Expectation clear to the Universe. The energy I allowed to linger in my body and my mind was full of LOVE, COMPASSION, KINDNESS, GENEROSITY, GRATITUDE AND AWE. Oh, and BELIEF in my power to call my desired goal to me. I KNEW it already existed. I had to draw it to myself with the energy of my thoughts and images. I KNEW that -- FEAR IS HUMANITY'S WORST ENEMY. Not the cancer, not your bodily dysfunction, or even pain. It's the FEAR such things generate in our hearts and thinking that cause us to become undone. Once we conquer the fear, we are on a path to victory. The energy of negativity: Uncertainty, vulnerability, fragility, worry, dread and all the ugly details of those emotions (including visions we have) have to be sought out. We must troll our minds for any signs of such things, allow ourselves to momentarily experience them, and then consciously choose to reject them. They are toxins out to spoil our health and well-being. And I do believe that positivity causes the immune system to function better. Studies of those out of work, full of fear and worry, show T cell counts to continuously fall over months. Depression messes with your immune system. Sleepless nights interfere with your body's ability to repair itself. And I do take some immune boosters, along with anti-oxidants to help keep my immune system at peak performance. Loved your post, Ellie. So thoughtful and insightful!! Thank you for sharing with us all! Andi |
Finding your power...! FRESH PERSPECTIVES
Your mind makes happen what it sees.
Have you noted the focused strength of the one running in an Olympic race? See pure concentrated resolution and certainty as their stride lengthens and they speed up. See the passion! How we think, how we talk to ourselves, the running dialogue in our minds, CREATES thinking patterns. And they will impact our moods and our anxiety levels, along with showing their mark on our body. So healing our thoughts and our psychological wounds is essential to our wellness (physically and mentally). Your Spirit connects you to a Higher Power, to your personal empowerment, to others, to past generations and the future of our planet. It is your connection to your Spirit that grants sanctity to everything you say and do. Begin by re-identifying yourself. You are a radiant Spirit with a mind and a body. You are the Witness. The one observing. Midst chaos around me, I consciously seek to become The Witness, to firmly connect with my Spirit. To rise above it all. To reach for my Higher Self... Andi |
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Love you AndiBB!
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Hi all
On the subject of immune systems and cancer been reading an article about depression of the immune system in medical students around exam time. The researcher, an immunologist had taken blood weeks before the exams and then compared it to samples taken during the course of the exams and then three weeks later. Guess what, the samples showed depletion of the fighting ability of white blood cells during the stressful exam time and took some time to return to normal. This isn't anecdotal as it was backed by blood screening. What the article went onto suggest was that if this depletion continues for any length of time it may give a tumour a foothold in the body. I also was left wondering if other types of stress ( physical, environmental, chemical) may do the same and also if there was an element of several factors coming together at the same time. Ellie |
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I'm reading Reinventing Medicine, by Larry Dossey, M.D. Fascinating! It touts "Beyond Mind-Body to a new era of Healing" on the cover.
Emotions are associated with medically significant changes in the body, Dossey writes. Researcher Paul Ekman of the Univ of Calif San Fran, has shown that people who willfully contort their facial muscles into expressions of happieness, fear or anger will soon come to feel happiness, fear or anger. To me, FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT comes to mind. I've heard that for some time. I believe it. Immunologist Nicholas Hall and his colleagues have reported immune changes associated with acting! Their findings suggest that acting is more than an act; it exerts effects on the body that may have important consequences for our health. ' They measured changes in the immune systems of two actors before, during and after they performed in two plays. One was a madcap comedy, Lucy Does a TV Commercial,. The other was a serious play whose main tone was depression, Peter Barnes's It's Cold, Wanderer, It's Cold, which is set in turn-of-the-century Russia during the days of the revolution. It takes place in a prison cell on the eve of the execution of an assassin. The researchers started drawing blood and measuring the heart rate of the two performers before they even received the scripts. They monitored the actors through rehearsals and during all subsequent performances. The plays were presented at the same time of day, before a different live audience, daily for 2 wks. Hall and his colleagues measured the responsiveness of immune cells called T- and B-lymphocytes. The data suggested a correlation between the type of personality being performed and immune responsiveness. After the Lucy comedy, the female performer showed increases in her immune functions. After she performed a depressing role in the drama, these measures were diminished. The male performer projected an anxious personality in the comedy as well as in the serious play. His immune function decreased following both performances. Dossey asks, If we identify with actors who are performing anxious or depressing roles, will we experience decreases in our immune function? Are comedians healthier than tragedians? He refers to our picking up on others' emotions (or energy) as nonlocal. And he says it is a fact, not a choice. If Shakespeare was correct, Dossey points out, in asserting that the world is a stage, then we're all actors and every life is an act. The question becomes which role shall we play? I consciously chose not to think of myself as a victim. I am a survivor. That's the role I've been playing since '95. And interestingly enough, as I project this hard-found inner strength and courage, others tell me, You're amazing. Huh, I think. Me?? They say the loveliest things to me and that in turn prods me to keep up the good work. The whole attitude thing feeds on itself. And, I believe, helps boost my immune system. Acting is more than an act. It's an exercise in being. We have to choose our roles carefully and exercise caution with whom we identify. As writer Marguerite Yourcenar says, "The mask, given time, comes to be the face itself". Dossey says "Nonlocal events have local consequences." They "Leave their tracks in the body. Their effects are real. The arts are more than entertainment; they affect the body". "Art is derived from the Latin artis, meaning 'to join' or 'fit together'. The essence of nonlocality is the joining and fitting together of things that appear separate. Nonlocality is art and art, nonlocality." We pick up on events like the Colorado horror. There is a mob mentality. Fans evoke and emit emotions and things can go well, happily, or turn into a stampede. When an audience laughs, we all feel we are having fun and doing it together, even with strangers. Very fascinating topic, no? Andi |
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I love Larry dossey. His book Healing Words is fascinating.
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Thanks Andrea,have just ordered the book.Feel like our understanding of immune function is still in its infancy. I had this same conversation with my onc earlier this week she was of the opinion that until clinical trials look at both drug interaction AND immune response we won't get a cure!
Ellie |
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Hi y'all!
Larry Dossey's book Healing Words begins with "...we thought we had given away to doctors and priests our ability to heal. But here it was, still in our possesion..." "...we were more than we had thought we were." A quote from Alvar Nufiez Cabeza de Vaca to the king of Spain, early sixteenth century. We possess the power to heal. Yes, surgeries and medications and chemotherapies are fantastic advancements. But at our core, we can converse with our bodies and instruct them to heal. The body's main function is to be your servant, following orders from the command center. Who is telling the mind to instruct the body? I believe it is the Soul. Or Spirit. Andi |
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Book arrived this morning! Good old Amazon. Looking forward to some interesting thoughts and ideas.
Ellie |
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Positive intentionality is immensely empowering. The effects of consciousness in medicine, athletes in the "zone" and even animals and other life forms challenges everyday assumptions.
WISDOM AND ANSWERS AREN'T ALWAYS A MATHEMATICAL FORMULA BASED ON LOGIC. Enjoy Larry Dossey's writings, Ellie! Every word. (I read with a pen, underlining, with arrows for extra emphasis and stars. I make notations in the margins.) I can't help myself. I revere books, and I must apologize to the book gods, but this is essential. I devour the information. Ingest it. Synthesize it. Process it. (I do only buy paperback. Don't know if I could be so brash with hard cover... :o) Amazon is sensational. I agree. Gets you what you need in a hurry... All that we see and know is not all there is... Andi |
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Located an abstract of his most recent study:
Explore (NY). 2010 Sep-Oct;6(5):295-307. Nonlocality, intention, and observer effects in healing studies: laying a foundation for the future. Schwartz SA, Dossey L. Source Samueli Institute, USA. saschwartz@earthlink.net Abstract All research domains are based upon epistemological assumptions. Periodic reassessment of these assumptions is crucial because they influence how we interpret experimental outcomes. Perhaps nowhere is this reassessment needed more than in the study of prayer and intention experiments. For if positive results from this field of research are sustained, the reality of nonlocal consciousness must be confronted. This paper explores the current status of healing and intention research, citing a number of major studies and using the "Study of the Therapeutic Effects of Intercessory Prayer (STEP) in Cardiac Bypass Surgery Patients: A Multicenter Randomized Trial of Uncertainty and Certainty of Receiving Intercessory Prayer" as a case study of this line of research. The paper argues that the dose-dependent model typical of drug trials, and adopted for use in the STEP and other studies, is not the optimal model for intention-healing research, and critiques this approach in detail, citing apposite research from which we draw our recommendations and conclusions. The paper suggests that the usual assumptions concerning blindness and randomization that prevail in studies using the pharmacological model must be reappraised. Experimental data suggest that a nonlocal relationship exists among the various individuals participating in a study, one which needs to be understood and taken seriously. We argue that it is important to account for and understand the role of both local and nonlocal observer effects, since both can significantly affect outcome. Research is presented from an array of disciplines to support why the authors feel these issues of linkage, belief, and intention are so important to a successful, accurate, and meaningful study outcome. Finally, the paper offers suggestions for new lines of research and new protocol designs that address these observer-effect issues, particularly the nonlocal aspects. The paper finally suggests that if these effects occur in intention studies, they must necessarily exist in all studies, although in pharmacological studies they are often overshadowed by the power of chemical and biological agents. |
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When you speak authoritatively and with conviction to the irrational movement of your deeper self (your subconscious mind) -- you will become flooded with harmony and peace.
The subconscious is subject to the conscious mind. It is your subconscious. It subjugates itself to YOU, its master, the one in command. Consciously choose what you want and desire and let that energy flow -- to your body, to your subconscious mind, and to the Universe itself. As Emily Dickinson said, DWELL IN POSSIBILITY... I ask you -- What would you attempt to do if you KNEW you could fail...??? Know what you want. Own it. Live it. Now... Love, Andi |
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Hey Andi
Love the statement about being master of your own subconscious! Sometimes it doesn't feel that way especially when gripped with fear and anxiety and lots of 'what ifs' .As you have pointed out before shifts in perception and thinking take lots of time and lots of effort. We have lost lots of sisters on this board that have been very positive thinkers but I believe instructing the body and immune system is something else. Not quite sure we are there yet in harnessing the potential but sure we have got to carry on trying! Hugs Ellie |
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When the voice in your head (which is the ego or separate self) fills you with fear and anxiety and what ifs -- and thus provides horrid pictures on our mental screen -- we must resist. Such thoughts and imagery make us feel rotten, and worse and worse. It effects our T cell count and brings our immune system down, it causes chemical changes that are unfriendly to our well-being -- physically and mentally. Emotions are preceded by our thoughts. When we are able to instead reach for our Higher Selves, our Truest Selves, we are connecting with Spirit. We are aligning ourselves, and identifying ourselves as a Spirit, or Soul, with a mind and a body. For me it was a gradual evolution and of course I have miles and miles to go yet. Today I had to take my dogs to the vet for their annuals. My husband is having double vision/6th cranial nerve palsy and is wearing an eye patch. So I had to drive. I hate to drive. But I do when I have to. The vet is a half hr away and my husband said to take the Turnpike. I no longer do Turnpikes. They cause panic attacks. But it is so much faster. The dogs were yelping nonstop in the back seat. I was clutching the steering wheels with sweaty palms. I was talking to myself (under the music I was playing, to try and calm me). I am the Witness. I am above myself, looking down. I am Spirit. I am the Universe. I am the All. I am in the sky. (It was a gorgeous blue with some fair weather clouds.) The sky is a magnificent expression of the Almighty. I am the sky. This was my dialogue, my inner dialogue that I felt the need to murmur a bit out loud. With the yelping and the music and being almost 75, my husband couldn't hear me. I had moments of completely setting myself free from the anxiety. Enough so that we got there and we were all in one piece. Enough so I had some blissful moments midst the craziness that was playing out in my head. When we got home, I went out shopping, returning stuff and in the cacophony of energy that pervades the mall. Good and bad. All real. All a part of life. I felt light and joyful. Smiled, chatted with some, as I am prone to do. I consciously stopped the voice in my head from prattling on and on. I took charge. As best I could. I listened to my Inner Voice. My Spirit. Which guides and protects me and loves me even more than I love myself. I trust it implicitly. Andi |
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Your mind makes happen what it sees.
Visualize. In vivid detail exactly what you desire. See yourself far far into the future. At a special occasion. Feel the moment. Draw what you want to you with the energy of your thoughts and visualization. It already exists. In another realm. Help manifest it on the physical plane. Live AS IF. As if what you want is already here. It is, in fact, on its way to you as you read these words. The power of your thoughts is mighty. Claim your power. Feed your dream in every detail. Help create your destiny. Choose the path you truly want to be on. You have that power of choice. Let love, compassion, kindness, generosity of Spirit, awe and gratitude fill you up and flow from you in every minute of every day. It's enormously healing. And it all comes back to you. I promise... Andi |
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The Big Me = Spirit and Consciousness. Awareness, as The Witness.
The little me = ego. It's more reactive than responsive. It takes life personally. We all need to reach for our Higher Selves (vs our basest or lower selves). In my worst moments, I try to remember -- I am disconnected. From my Spirit. From my Truest Self. Which makes us feel alone, isolated, anxious, exasperated and out of control. We find our power when we align ourselves, and identify ourselves as a radiant Spirit, with a mind and a body. Then we feel full of Love, Joy, Serenity, Oneness, Compassion, Generosity, Awe and Gratitude for the tiniest of our blessings. We live in a great country. Free. We can walk and talk, feed and bathe ourselves, read a book, write, breathe on our own. And the sky -- it is so glorious! Have you noticed???? |
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Yeah, whenever I take one too many pain pills! Just kidding, thanks for the pep talk!
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Your Spirit is your most precious possession.
It directs your mind. It loves you more than you do. It wants to guide and protect you. Nurture you; support you in every unimaginable way. In The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy, he says that whatever you habitually think sinks down into your subconscious mind, which then creates (according to the nature of your thoughts). The subconscious mind is the seat of your emotions. How you think will determine how you will feel (happy pills aside):o)... Once the subconscious mind accepts an idea, it begins to execute it. Your behavior will change in accordance. I say out loud every day, THANK YOU FOR MY LIFE. http://cdn-cf.aol.com/se/clip_art/pe...notworthy-clip I look up and smile with gratitude. I tell my body, STRONG, BRAVE AND DETERMINED. HEALTHY AND WELL! NO MORE CANCER. I do this several times a day. I KNOW my subconscious is my faithful servant. It will direct my body. And my body will obey. I believe in the power of my subconscious to heal, uplift and strengthen me! Change your thoughts, change your destiny. And it is also true -- anti-depressants, anti-anxiety meds help me sleep well and live with more joy. Studies show that sleep is essential to our well-being. It is time the body takes to repair damage. We owe it to ourselves to get a good night's sleep every single day. Wishing you all wellness and peace. Remember -- you are in charge. You are the Captain of your Soul. The Master of your Fate! Honest to goodness!! Andi |
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It's important, I've learned, to distinguish between the voice in my head vs my Inner Voice. That is the channel my Spirit speaks to me on. It is full of Love, Compassion, Understanding, Kindness, Generosity, Awe, humble Gratitude, caring Guidance and remarkable Support. That is my Higher Self talking to me. It is divinely wise and timelessly Present.
The voice in my head represents my primal self, my basest self. That voice is full of pride and jealousies, it criticizes and belittles me, blames, lacks self-confidence and so has a false sense of superiority. It judges all (me most harshly). It taunts me, making my head spin and my heart hurt. It worries and frets all day long. Oh, and it is full of fear. I came upon Full of Beans thread --Life is a celebration. Wow what courage that woman has. How eloquently she touches our Souls. She wrote: 'Life is a celebration of that which we can do, not a requiem for that which we can not do' I just wanted to let you know that despite my face edema and the blood clot and risk involved (not medically insured) I did go to my friend's wedding in Turkey and I had a fabulous time. My face is still causing me pain when I look at it, but hey it is another experience I suppose. Many time I have felt sad and TV marketing and facebook makes you feel as if you have little to hold on to comparatively to you peers.. it is easy to feel like a looser:no financial securities..no health.. no lover or perfect family and behaved children). My friends all seem to be going on to better and greater things and I feel that in all that time I have been surviving, Instead one should always celebrate what it is he can do: I have survived almost 7 years with metastatic cancer and left no stone unturned, I have learned a lot, mostly about myself and I can still stand straightwith love and compassion in my heart. You all have amazed me on this board and show so much spirit, thank you for I was learning. __________________ When someone reminds us of our Oneness, it is a beautiful experience. All living things have a Soul. When we feel the Soul of our beingness, we find ourselves on a path to finding our Spirit, Grace and Love, which is a part of our mission here. Full of Beans helped remind me of my power... Andi |
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Totally agree Andi. I was only thinking of FOB today and thought it was a while since she posted.
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People are always asking me what exactly I do when I meditate. I am happy to share.
I sit in a comfy chair or lie on my bed. I close my eyes and focus only on my breath. I dismiss every thought that occurs instantly. Just keep batting them away like flies. No mind. Only breath. Take life-affirming in through my nose, sucking it in to the count of 7. Then hold on to that breath. Ground myself in The Now -- to the count of 7. Finally, blow that air out through pursed lips, kissing it goodbye along with letting go of any and all that is negative in me (in my head and in my body)... To the count of 7. Just keep repeating that for about 10 minutes. Sometimes I start imagining myself in my favorite place in the world. For some this is a beach, for me it is a wooded area I was led to when I was 15 years old, in the Poconos of New York. I instantly become transported. To that treasured, radiantly glorious spot -- and -- to the feelings and emotions I experienced all those many years ago. I go to this spot when I have CT scans or MRIs, when I am forced to wait (anywhere) and before or after I do the breathing thing. Remember your wondrous spot that filled you with awe and joy? See it in vivid detail. The sky, the ground, to the right and the left of you. Smell it. Listen... Were there certain sounds? The trickling or stirring of water? Birds chirping? Rustling? Can you feel a breeze? Return there any time you wish. You are free to do that. And when you return to reality, the wonder of that experience will remain with you. For hours... Then go out and create a great day for yourself. Despite all the unwanted inconveniences and stresses that Life seems to come with. How we choose to process the realities we are given determines how we will feel. Perspective is key. THOUGHT precedes all emotion. So, I am careful about what I allow myself to ponder and dwell on all day. It's really really hard some times to reject the awfulness of situations and the constant stream of thoughts and ideas that come from that angry voice in our heads. But, the power of your Inner Voice, which is your truest Self, or your Spirit, is far far greater...! I KNOW I must consciously choose to listen to my Higher Self. Most of the time. Yes, and sometimes, I forget... But if I am feeling rotten and distressed, I try to remind mySelf that -- OH, I'm -- disconnected! That's what's wrong! I'm misaligned. Misidentifying myself as that harping voice in my head. WE ARE SO MUCH MORE THAN A BODY AND A MIND... We are each a luminous Soul with the might to rise above the chaos and become The Witness. Observing from above, separate from our trials and their consequent emotions. I wish you happiness and harmony, the ability to see how sweet Life is and the power to "suck out all the marrow of life", as Thoreau so beautifully put it. To feel alive! Or as e.e. cummings wrote, "If 180 million people want to be undead, that's their funeral, but I happen to like being alive"... Here's to Life!!!!!!! Andi |
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I posted this in another thread -- CONTROLLING PHYSICAL REACTIONS TO STRESS. I felt it was so important I had to put that info in here...
Okay Ellie, I have been thinking about what you wrote all day. We cannot avoid stress. Yes, stress that paralyzes you is full of fear, and I believe that is humanity's worst enemy. Not the canser, but FEAR. The emotions that come from that emotion are highly toxic. I believe whatever illness/dysfunction we develop as a result strikes our genetically weakest area. I had a paternal grandmother and paternal aunt who had bc. Yes, w/a positive attitude whatever time you have is more joyful for sure!! But, I know people who had a positive attitude but deep into the night, their stress came out, as is common in the middle of the night when you feel totally alone in the darkness. So as I pondered your words today I realized that though (between '95 and '98) I was positive, indeed grateful yet not cocky, I wasn't on guard. And I mean that in an amazingly good way. After '98 I was on guard at the tower. I offered my gratitude more often and out loud. I spoke to my body non-stop, all day, every day. I made my Intention and my Expectation vividly clear, in words and with mental pictures. And I have read that these 2 ingredients are spiritually essential to our health!! And deep in the night, when the pain in arm where the 21 lymph nodes were removed, I have recently read something quite life-altering. Ken Wilbur again, in The Simple Feeling Of Being, speaks of blocks we develop. And we feel it in our gut, in our chest, other places I didn't relate to as readily so can't recall at the moment. So, I've been speaking to my body deep in the night, when the pain in my arm comes. I stroke it and speak to it. I address my pain and its derivation. I tell myself -- it's okay to feel that fear and sadness you felt in '95. It's okay to let those feelings up and out. It's okay to let them go. Let them go. And I stroke my arm, and you know what????? The pain has been absent for about 4 nights now. Incredibly gone. My buried thoughts and feelings about the loss of my breast and the pain like a tourniquet tied too tightly around my arm, choking it needed to stop blocking up my system. I needed to release all that. And to cognizantly acknowledge it -- finally -- and reassure myself that it is alright to admit to that feeling of frailty and vulnerability. I don't have to be strong and brave 24/7. It's okay. I do embrace each day. I do live with love. Hugs. Expressing my love in many ways, to those I love and to strangers. And I believe that energy is returned to us. I do it to give back, to fulfill our purpose in Life, to help one another. I talk to people as if they are friends, and they become friends. I used to be so shy. I wouldn't speak up. Now, I talk a lot. As you might guess. I find out the most amazing things. People open up to me and they have Messages for me, and I for them. And right, Ellie, let's not waste a single day feeling sad or separate. Life is too precious. Valerie and Sarah and Bunty know this to name but a few! Keep talking to your body! Remember -- it hears everything you think or whisper or say. It sees what you see. And it obeys your subtlest of directions!!! Love and Light, Andi |
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Words of comfort at a difficult time. We all mourn the passing on of our much loved Sister, Brenda...
She came and taught us so much. By example. With passion, devotion, tenacity, courage, inner strength, a hunger to learn, to support, inspire and share! What a remarkable Spirit Brenda is! i was dead i came alive i was tears i became laughter all because of love when it arrived my temporal life from then on changed to eternal - Rumi The thought of death leaves me in perfect peace, for I have a firm conviction that our spirit is a being of indestructible nature; it works on from eternity to eternity, it is like the sun, which though it seems to set to our mortal eyes, does not really set, but shines on perpetually. - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe - I too have a firm conviction that our Spirit is indestructable. We return to "our Original Face, the one we had before the Big Bang, before our parents were born" (to paraphrase Ken Wilbur). I always find that concept stunning. It awakens a remembering in me... There is no death, only transition. Our Spirit connects us to the Source of everything, the eternal field of consciousness that placed its divine energy there to guide and protect us, to keep seeking knowledge and awareness... Deepak Chopra, Gary Zucav, Eckhart Tolle and so many ancient Seers say we are each here to discover our Truest Self. We are spiritual Beings on a human quest. We have manifested in human form to learn and grow, expand and love. Evolution is an ongoing process and we are each needed to continue to help create the world. I find that it's incredibly liberating and empowering to see the world through the eyes of your Soul. Each death is another awakening. Death is a migration of the Spirit. Eternity does not start with death, we are in Eternity now... Brenda still is! The Heavens are sining a little brighter now that she has moved on. We will miss her, but we will meet again... |
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Thats wonderful Andi!:)
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I've been gifted with Personal Authentic Empowerment since the moment I drew my first breath. As have YOU! Claim your birthright.
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I just had to bring this thread back up. There's so much empowerment in here. Midst our struggle we tend to forget what we really need to focus on.
I hope this entire thread, which includes a post from our beloved Chrisy and refers to the loss of Brenda, our dear Sister, will lift someone on this board up! NedDenise once asked me if I was a cheerleader. Well, yes in high school. But as a kid at camp, playing baseball, when my team was up, and sitting on the bench, I was working. Jumping up and down and rooting for the next batter up! You can do this! I know you can! Just relax. Focus. I was 8 yrs old. Now, I've come to think we each need a Life Coach. Wouldn't that be cool?????!!!! Well, what I've learned is that your Inner Voice is your Spirit, and it coaches you through the big and little things that come up each day, throughout the day. It is wise and loves you more than you love yourself. It guides and protects you (kind of like the big brother I never had). It nurtures and boosts your morale. It supports you, inspires you, helps you heal -- and, if you allow it, can bring you to be The Master Of Your Fate...!!! With Love, as always, Andi |
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I JUST POSTED A NEW THREAD -- THE POWER OF YOUR THOUGHTS. I hope you find much in there to let percolate, inspire and empower you! I'm going for my now annual CT scans Thursday, June 13 I AM LUCKY 13 since '98... I've made my Intention and Expectation vividly clear to my body and to the Universe. A few prayers wouldn't hurt. :o)) |
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And prayers you shall have, my dear friend!
May all the positive energy you send out...flow back to you doubled! Thirteen is my lucky number too! I got married on the 13th of August! :) A great day, to be sure! My quarterly CT is the following week...on the 20th...so right about the time you get the all clear...I'll be focusing on my upcoming all clear too! :) Denise (aka "Neddy") |
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Dear Andi,
I'll be there in spirit, for sure, so many connections we have had and continue to have. You know the rest, With love, Karen |
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Thoughts and prayers for both you, Andi, and Denise. Visualize the healing power within and all around you. And may the number 13 prove to be very lucky indeed.
Take care, Jackie |
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QUICK EXPLANATION -- re #13 for me.
When I was dx I was full of certainty that I would survive. Because of my weird spiritual revelation the day before my mastectomy. Did I tell you all about that? Must have. Somewhere... Anyway, 3 yrs later when "I" caught my metastasis -- throughout my liver (liver enzymes very very slightly elevated, not to worry I kept hearing from docs) anyway, I digress. Who me? It's what I do. My friend said to me, You'll be fine. I don't know, I offered warily. You did it before, you'll do it again. You don't understand, I explained (I'd been reading up) I have less than a 15% chance of surviving. Maybe for a year. My friend shot back, So there you go!!! You are #13. That's my lucky # and -- I'm giving it to you! You will be among the 15% who survive! She went out and ordered a rhinestone pin #13 and in a short while gave it to me. I keep it by my sink, to look at and remind me every day. Then the #13 started appearing in my life, and Paul's. At the bakery, I was #13. The medication to give myself daily injections (SIL doc came and did the honors) was Fed Exed to me. The man came to the door. I ran to answer the bell, left my glasses behind. He hands me the package and the clipboard. That's it. Just sign right here. I could barely see. He tapped the pen at the spot and said, Right here. YOU'RE #13. And on and on 13 kept coming into our lives. We decided it was the Universe saying, You're going to be fine. You're #13. You're going to live! 13 is a sign. From the Universe! So that's nice Neddy that you and I share this lucky #. Paul's license plate now has his initials -- and the number 13!!!!!!!!!!!!! It has proved to be a blessing... ANDI |
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So, my update in -- THE POWER OF OUR THOUGHTS...
Life's a roller coaster. Ups and downs. I'm teetering at the top... preparing for tomorrow. Frankly, I wouldn't get on a roller coaster if you paid me. Did that once (the Cyclone in Coney Island, age 15) and my knees shook and buckled for hrs after. Scared the hell out of myself! But here I am, having another roller coaster moment. I'm holding on tight. Smiling. Gritting my teeth... Here we go... |
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I'm going to post this in my thread -- the power of thoughts.
So if you'd like -- please please do!! You know me, i think in long paragraphs. Lots to say... Sending love and light, andi |
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Just had to resurrect this thread one more time. Lots of empowering info in here.
Was looking for my SQUARE BREATHING MEDITATION TECHNIQUE. Failed on that score, but found all this good stuff, and think it's an oldie but goodie... LOVE, ANDI |
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In searching for my SURVIVOR'S thread, I came upon this.
Some have asked where it is. Beats me. But this is kind of on that topic. Always thinking of you, my Sisters, ANDI |
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